Look around next time you’re in public, and you’ll see a whole lot of people who are scared out of their minds. In real life, if you’re feeling scared or unsure about yourself, simply realize that everyone else is afraid, too.
Successful People Act In Spite of FearĮvery Dauntless initiate had to go through their fear landscape and learn to face their fears. It’s good to be different and embrace your true needs, desires and interests. The people who are ultimately most loved and adored by others are those who avoid politics and “trying to fit in” and instead get straight to work trying to help people and make the world a better place. Just like office politics, when you spend all your time trying to fit in and be seen as a good person, you stop focusing on what’s really important in life: doing good work and contributing to your family, community, company, country and world. If they don’t forgive you, they weren’t worth sacrificing your dreams for anyway.Įveryone was so concerned with fitting in and being seen as a good member of their faction that they forgot who they really were. If the people you disappoint really love you, they will forgive you eventually. You may feel ashamed when you follow your heart because it may disappoint others, but it’s better to face shame for a short period of time than to face regret for the rest of your life. In life, when you have to make a choice between disappointing others and following your heart, go with your heart. Follow Your HeartĪt the Choosing Ceremony, Tris decides to go for Dauntless, even though she knows her parents will be disappointed. Whether you’re a huge fan of Divergentor have never heard of it, here are 10 big life lessons you can learn from this bestselling young adult novel.
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